she-is-not-your-equal“Women have always been the primary victims of war. Women lose their husbands, their fathers, their sons in combat.”

― Hillary Rodham Clinton

I love that quote – seriously, it brings a tear to my eye… as I laugh from just how perfectly it displays a woman’s inability to see reality through anything but her feelings.

If you are the typical guy you read it and said to yourself, “Yeah, those poor girls that are the victims of war. They lost their husbands, fathers, and sons to the vicious war. I see that and agree, they have been victimized.” And because you see the world through their very self-serving views, you are not going to see the truth. And you are never going to ignite their sexual souls.

And here is the truth; The victim(s) Hillary is talking about are still alive. Her husband, father and son probably died protecting her ass. She herself (as any self-centered and self-serving person would be) does not want to be on the battle field. As seen in real life.

Even more interesting, this quote displays the ability of women to turn anything that happens in life as them being the victim. It’s why I take all stories about some girl being abused, raped, attacked or putdown as the truth, but not the whole truth. It is why women claim husbands were abusive after they hit the man and he defends himself. It is why we are still dealing with the feminist movement. Pick any time in history that women felt oppressed and I can show you that men in the same race and social economic class had it worse. Anytime. It is also why women typically have no concept of accountability – if they display being the victim most men can be socially manipulated into doing the woman’s bidding.

The truth of the matter is women do not date men they see as equal.

She has to see you as having more value than her. If she doesn’t your relationship is doomed, or will never get off the ground.

I bring this up primarily as a way to help you men start seeing reality for what it was. We have an entire generation of men that are being raised with “politically correct but wrong thoughts”; “Men and Women are equals”, “A woman can do anything a man can do”, “Women are held down by men”, “Women make $0.77 to each dollar a man makes“, “1 in 4 college women are raped“, “we live in a rape culture“, “Men are more violent than women”, “Men leave women and children and should pay for it“, “Men cheat and lie more than women”, “men should never hit a woman”, “men should put women first”, “men should be chivalrous to women” and on and on we go.

Is it no wonder we became a nation of pussies? Everything in your mind that you have not purposefully programmed into your subconscious was programmed there by someone else. Most of our mental programming was placed in our subconscious mind by the time we are 8. Our programming dictates our Mental Road Maps, and our MRM’s dictate how we see reality. Our actions (energy, body language, communication, movement) are dictated by our subconscious – and that is the crap that has been programmed. How do you think all of that subconscious programming is going to make you feel as you try to interact with a woman?

People you were around when you were young had the most influence on your mental programming. They didn’t mean to program you bad, they were likely programmed bad as well. Most people wanted to program us as a success, and most people in our lives wanted to protect us so we got the “this sounds good” or “what I wish were true” programming. Face it 1% of the population makes 96% of the money, and 1 % of the guys get the top 20% of the most desired females. Most people don’t have a clue how to be a success.

Want to know why you like “corn” – one of your primary influencers liked corn.seductive-boat-girl

Want to know why you speak with a Jersey, Texas or any other accent – one of your primary influencers spoke with this accent probably reinforced by where you live.

Want to know why you don’t have the success with women you desire – one of your primary influencers programmed you to be “nice” and put others, especially females, first.

My dad was at war the first 5 years of my life. I was a mommy’s boy. When he came back, I hated him. He took my mom away from me (as only natural when a husband returns). My dad was an Alpha in his own right – military, shot down 11 times (helicopters), wounded, bronze star, boxer, first member of the family to ever get a degree, financially successful, etc. And I was an early disappointment to him. He wasn’t around much, and I was a pussy boy. When I was young I didn’t live up to his standards. I wasn’t allowed to play contact sports (from my mom and grandmother) because I could get hurt. It wasn’t till my father forced me into boxing that I started to grow a backbone. And it still took years and a devastating divorce before I even started to learn all of this. He even said I would only be a ditch digger – and I was a millionaire by the time I was 30. But I had a lot of mental reprogramming to do first.

So how does this apply to you being the Alpha male?

Every single attraction factor that a man can display to a woman is that of him being above her. Not her equal, but above her. Whether it is true or not is based on a combination of what she values, and how he makes her feel. This is a subjective or perceived truth for sure.

You see, women and men see things differently. We all say we know that, but most people don’t truly understand that. Women feel truth. No matter what logic or reasoning you use to point out a difference in thinking, if she doesn’t feel it, it isn’t true. Call this subjective truth.

And men tend to be on the other spectrum. We tend to use a more objective truth. I see it, therefore it is true. I may feel like it should be different, but that doesn’t make it true.

And this is where we men let women down.

Men are more physical and stronger than women. Women tend to be just as violent as men, however they have less capacity for physical human damage (baring a gun or knife). This is why stopping abuse is primarily aimed at men. We have the capacity to do more damage because we are stronger therefore we are more dangerous. And why our laws and the enforcement of these laws are so against men being abusive and not women being abusive. If we, as men, lose control, we can easily kill them and there is little they can do to prevent it.

Women are more emotional and mentally stronger than men in a social environment. I don’t mean IQ. What I mean is women are stronger than men in social strategy, which is a form of mental chess or manipulation. Socially manipulating interactions is what women do. This is a form of evolutionary psychology that would allow the woman to “control” the male and protect her young. She couldn’t do it physically, so she had to learn the social strategies. It is why they love soap operas, reality TV and romance novels so much… it is usually about group dynamic social constructs which she has trained in since birth. It has been proven to be true regardless of environment, simply because of how her brain is wired.

Men were created to be powerful and capable of fierce violence to protect her and the young. We were also created to be less socially capable than the female so she could control us to a degree.

competing-for-attentionAn Alpha male of the historical and evolutionary past was the dominate member of the group. He was the one that could be “enticed” enough to take her under his protective and sexual umbrella, “controlled” enough to keep her around, but not one who could be dominated by her – either with physical harm, sex or children. He was a man that could replace her with another of the group easily. This is part of why Preselection is so powerful on women. Even within the group of an Alpha they had to compete with other females in that group for the Alpha’s attention. Imagine a group of women that had to work together raising young and surviving also trying to get the same males attention.

This is also why the famous actor or rock star does so well, at least at first, with women. Preselection. Lot’s of the “group” already want him so women who might pass him up on the street start to want him too. It is how women compete. Of course, if they get him and he can’t pass her shit test, she starts looking for a higher value male. This is the very definition of Hypergamy.

We talk many times about “shit test” and how to deal with them. A shit test is simply a woman testing your ability to handle a challenge from the woman. It is a display of your mental and social fitness. And most of these “politically correct but wrong thoughts” are a massive collective shit test.

Every tactical, strategic and display of Alpha is a way to demonstrate high value without being controlled by female social constructs. Not as a man see’s high value, but as a woman see’s high value. Remember, what she feels is the value you bring to her life (a subjective truth) not the actual value you bring to her life (objective truth).

A very rich man, who is tall and good looking, well hung, articulate that can offer her a life of ease and exciting adventure should bring more value than the guy who makes enough to live, average to short height, average build with an average education. Every man reading this would say the first man had more value. Every women reading this would agree.

However, if that first man kissed her ass all the time, constantly put her first, bought her gifts with no reciprocation, contacted her first and most, let her (or by lack of trying made her) lead the interactions, constantly reassured her and tried to make her his equal while absolutely no other women showed interest in him (because he only wants her), she would be repelled. She shouldn’t be, but on a deep psychological level, she knows she is stronger than him mentally (social construct). This emotional energy is why nice guys get left behind when as men, we logically think he is the better catch than the other guy (the ones we call losers, bad boys, douche bags, assholes, etc.).

The other shorter, not as financially successful, average man that knows how to challenge her, increase attraction and create sexual tension with no fear of losing her is the one that ignites all of those powerful feelings in her brain and he is the one that makes her feel like he is the better sexual mate. If other women want him, so much the better. He is the one that doesn’t let her control him, change his views, dictate the interaction and he reacts to her emotional manipulation with either stoic humor or no emotions. He is her social mental master, and she is programmed to desire this guy.

This is why I wrote the Alpha Laws. They seem dark to some, but this is the truth of the sexual mating ritual of the Alpha and his mate. Each law helps reinforce a specific mindset that naturally displays Alpha.she-wants-a-master

Social Master – 2, 5, 9, 11, 22, 24
Dictate the Interaction -3, 6, 15, 18, 19, 21
Personal Power & Beliefs – 1, 4, 10, 14, 20, 23, 24
Preselection – 7, 12, 13, 17

All of these require confidence and work to increase attraction and build sexual tension. Every single one of them is a subconscious belief that dictates actions.

Any girl you want to be with can never be your equal. She is never going to settle or surrender to equal. Sure, she is of equal value as a human (likely more so since she can have offspring and you cannot – the only thing she can do better than you), but she is not your equal in her ability to dominate. You must be able to master your mind and emotions to display that you can master hers. She must always perceive you have more value than she has and you cannot be controlled. This is the recipe for very happy men and women.

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  1. 538659 on March 31, 2014

    Is that what women are suppose to look like according to you “alphas”. Skinny, big(fake) boobs, yet not that much butt/hips?

    • AlphaX Author on March 31, 2014

      Those are the women the most men find attractive. It’s not a secret conspiracy against girls that don’t look like this, just our extremely successful evolutionary biology at work.

      • 538659 on April 2, 2014

        I’m not talking about any specific pictures you posted but is my description what you White men like?

        • AlphaX Author on April 2, 2014

          It really is what most men like – regardless of race. Men and women both have hierarchies. Men who can’t get the hottest girl tend to settle – which is what women do to. Just because they are with a bit more curvy girl doesn’t mean they wouldn’t drop her if a hotter girl made her self available.

          • 538659 on April 2, 2014

            so you are saying curvy women are not hot? And men don’t prefer slim women to curvy women?

            They prefer the female form before she goes through puberty?

            • lda on December 12, 2017

              Curvy women are hot if you’re a soy-boy environmentalist who wants to protect land whales.

  2. AlphaX Author on April 3, 2014

    Words can be tricky… Men prefer hot-model

    which was found under “hot model” in google vs this
    which was found under curvy model.

    If you mean curvy like google, the other 300 million people in America, and most “fat” women mean curvy then yes, men prefer thin.

  3. Barb on January 19, 2015

    Thanks for the most unintentionally hilarious thing I’ve ever read.


    1) Who started the war? The men.

    Men LOVE war. They love playing with guns, and bomb, and killing people. Men practically jack off to war movies, and play war video games all day.

    And who has to pay the price so you can enjoy your childish war games, and play with your guns and bombs? The women and children must pay.

    That is the point.

    When women finally run things, there will be no war. You will have to make due with the kind of violent movies and video games you enjoy and leave real humans out of it, you little shits.

    2) Women serve in the military and right now there is a woman protecting YOUR ass.

    This isn’t new. Women have always fought next to men in wars, due to simple necessity, because there weren’t enough men for them to stay home with the children. Even back in the days of Joan of Arc, it was not actually uncommon for a woman to join the military. So typical really, you start the shit and we have to pay the price, fighting your stupid wars and raising your children alone.

    You mess it up-we clean it up.

    Unlike you, I have actually known a real female war victim, from the Bosnian wars. Go read the horrors of what they did to the women in their rape and impregnation camps. Something you will never face because you cannot get pregnant. This is exactly how our society goes down, when men start wars and the most violent ones spread there genes through rape.

    I asked her “What was the Bosnian war all about?”

    She answered “It was something stupid the men came up with and a lot of people got killed.”

    • AlphaX Author on January 21, 2015

      Most women can’t even pass the basic fitness exam, and no woman is protecting my ass. I am locked and loaded thank you.

      Secondly, if you actually pay attention you are going to notice that women are actually more violent than men. Moms, on average, hit their children 3 times per day, and women typically start domestic violence. Just because your slap doesn’t do as much damage as my upper cut doesn’t mean you can hit a man with impunity. And just because I (or most men) don’t call the cops or go to the hospital after your weak slap doesn’t mean your slap doesn’t count as violence.

      Thirdly, more average men use weapons to protect women and children against crime than to commit crime. There are 320 million people in America, & about 300 million guns. In 2013 there were “Firearm homicides – Number of deaths: 11,068″ That is 0.003% – Which really means very few men are actually evil or violent. And as we get more guns, crime goes down. Some men are evil – and so are some women. But men are blamed by women like you that don’t have enough real problems – or a high sexual market value.

      However, you, like many short sighted women, are missing the point of the article. I didn’t say women aren’t of equal value to men, I said women don’t date or fuck their perceived equal. I should qualify that, hot women date men they see as higher value. More value equates to many things, but is usually based on the mans ability to bed other women. It is like fame – the more famous the man, the more random women want to bed him.

      I have no idea what male star you like, but if you feel attraction to them it is because you believe they have a higher social standing than you do. It’s a fact, no matter how much you want to argue it.

      Lastly, if you are going to try to win an argument with a man, try bringing a few facts and figures – and not your little feelings.

  4. Mistress K on December 30, 2016

    I’ve read this article about fifteen times, and for some reason unbeknownst to me today it finally CLICKED! I’ve had this limiting belief that ran around in my head that said a women will always bypass their attraction for me for a man until I realized that alpha traits are predominantly behaviors precipitated by thoughts. I know duh maybe it’s because I’m a woman lol Attraction really is vibe and not so much physical attributes like what most men seem to think is what women are attracted to. Of course they are, but it’s such a small amount in comparison. If I can walk in to my local bar, a woman, a minority, short, with a gapped tooth smile and attract at least 60-70% of the women in the bar (maybe more, I have really good hair :D) these dudes have absolutely no excuses.

    • AlphaX Author on December 30, 2016

      Great comment and you are right.

  5. lda on December 12, 2017

    Just read this and the behaviour of some girls toward me suddenly made sense. I guess I’ve been doing this right all along – just start by not caring what others think – they have to prove their worth to you first!