I think this story demonstrates many of my less popular teachings. So let’s review a few components and see what we can discern.
Now, I don’t know Brad or Angelina, nor have I ever met them. I do, however know people, women especially. Everything I write about regarding Brad’s & Angelina’s relationship is an educated guess.
Brad and Angelina started banging in 2004. Both were successful and considered “one of the beautiful people”. For 10 years, they dated. And this is one key.
You see, one of the biggest traits an Alpha man can have is his desire NOT to settle down. Any man with eyes can see that marriage is a very raw deal in today’s western society. Marriage is not 2 people joining in love, but the forming of a corporation that dictates the legal parameters around assets, taxes, finances and of course kids. Only the kids are considered in “family law” not “business law” but are commonly used to influence the division of assets in the business law dealings.
A man that holds off from taking the plunge is seen as a high value man. The slower he is willing to go into a legal contract, the more attractive he is. The problem is when he does agree to be legally bound. In that one moment he lowers his sexual market value and he takes the ability to decide his life path and gives the wife and the courts to dictate his life. A man that can’t decide his own path is no better than a slave. And slaves are not seen as sexy or powerful very often.
Next let’s review her comments: “Our sources say, Angelina became “fed up” with Brad’s consumption of weed and possibly alcohol, and mixed with what she believes is “an anger problem” … felt it became dangerous for the children.”
Many times the exact traits that attracted the woman (threesomes, partying, dangerous behavior, etc.) are the exact same traits she will use against you when her attraction drops. From experience I know the threesomes we had, wild parties and motorcycle trips that she loved, and asked for more of, were thrown right back in my face in court. It is easy for her to gain sympathy and possibly win by using exactly what she loved against you.
Many times as her beauty fades she will try to use these against you to manipulate you into whatever it is she wants.
Now let’s talk a little bit about the mental stability around Angelina. As a teen, being depressed from not getting some modeling gigs she wanted, she cut herself. When she married British actor Jonny Lee Miller, she dressed for her wedding in black leather pants with a white shirt. On this shirt she had written her to-be husband’s name in her blood! She then married Bill Bob Thorton, a very eccentric man in his own right. And she wore blood from him in a vial around her neck. I am starting to see a pattern with blood.
She has 13 tattoos. Two among them are the Tennessee Williams quotes “A prayer for the wild at heart, kept in cages” which she got together with her mother and four sets of geographical coordinates on her upper left arm which are indicative of the birthplaces of her children. The tattoos and the cutting are big indicators as to why type of girl you are dealing with.
Lastly, she was considered a very beautiful women. This means that in her prime, she garnered a lot of male attention. She is also a talented actress, and very successful in her own right. The only men that women like this are interested in are the “dangerous” ones that seem “above” them. These men don’t put the girl on a pedestal, bend over backwards, or consider them to be something special just because they are hot.
This is a major attractor to a single, in demand, woman. But as women age, they tend to look less attractive. The success (money and fame) is not a very large sexual trigger for men (if it is one at all). As her looks fade, she will likely become more eccentric and demanding to compensate for her feelings of inadequacy. As she becomes less beautiful from a biological stand point, men tend to give less attention and put up with less shit. It is very common event, and easily seen in many relationships between beautiful women in famous positions.
You can also probably see this in your own life. The extremely hot girl in your office or school can likely act more flakey, rude, or thoughtless and you still like her. The ugly, large, mean girl can’t get away with any of this, or even garner your attention.
As The Alpha Ages
His sexual market value peaks well beyond the age of most females. Many famous men have done amazingly well into their 60’s, 70’s and beyond.
Here are just a few:
Donald Trump proposed to Melania Knauss in 2004, when he was 58 years old and she was 34. The couple married on January 22, 2005. and they are still married today.
Harrison Ford began dating Calista Flockhart in 2002, when he was 60 and she was 38. They married on June 15, 2010, and are still married.
Sylvester Stallone married Jennifer Flavin in 1997, when he was 51 and she was 29. They are still married.
Hugh Hefner married Crystal Harris on December 31, 2012, when he was 86 and she was 26. Still married.
And don’t even get me started with the older “successful” men that just date hot, younger girls.
My favorite party Alpha “Jack” knows how to live it up.
Can successful women date younger men? Sure, if they keep an attractive appearance. But it is nowhere near as common. It took a lot of searching to find a few couples with a 20 year difference rather than just a few years.
Susan Sarandon & Jonathan Bricklin
Madonna & Jesus Luz
My point? As a man ages his Alpha status, success and ability to draw a much larger (including younger) pool of women goes up. No matter how hot the girl, as she ages her ability to draw a larger pool of men goes down. Not something I set up, but just our biology.
This dynamic can create all kinds of hell in the relationship. From personal experience and in dealing with friends or clients, as a man gains in Alpha standing, his desire to put up with bullshit goes way down. As a man is able to attract many more women, he is not going to tolerate a lot of nagging, bitching, negative energy in his home. And the ability of a woman to use her sexuality against the man declines as well.
I think that the declining looks of the woman, the increased negative energy in the home, and the lower tolerance of the Alpha male for BS is why so many seemingly perfectly matched “star” couples die on the vine.
Last Thought On Alpha Brad
One of the biggest things for men to see here is the end result of an Alpha man marrying.
Brad is one of the best looking men in the world.
He is fit.
Full head of hair.
Plenty of preselection.
And by all the lack of media in his life, a solid guy. Not a lot of drama around him outside of the break ups of a few girls.
In today’s society, it is just too damn easy for a girl to “feel” upset, and leave. No worries bout the children, assets, the rest of her life. If it just seems the grass is a little greener over there, they go over there. And who knows, maybe, in this case, the grass will be greener for her. With women initiating 70% of the divorces, they tend to be the major driver of the broken home. Is it unreasonable expectations? A world of media that has sold them the bill of goods of how perfect everyone but them is? I truly don’t know.
I do know I wouldn’t date her.
My prediction, Brad will be banging an even hotter, younger girl(s) as soon as this is behind him. Angelina will date men inferior to Brad.
She is suing for primary physical custody… but at least not alimony. How much would you have to pay a girl worth $150,000,000 to make it matter?