A new article, Positive Pregnancy Tests Up For Sale Online discusses the trend of women trying to use a pregnancy to trap a man.
While getting and using a “pissed on positive” pregnancy test may be a new trend, using a pregnancy to get a man is as old as female intuition.
Never allow a girl to have any control over whether or not you become a dad. You will buy your own condoms, keep them safe and out of her ability to get with them and tamper with them. If you find yourself in a situation where you don’t have a condom and she does, you will use it and still pull out. I always used spermicidal lubricant as well.
For those of you that have read any of this site, you know the data on cuckold pregnancies:
“The statistics range from 24-26% of children born and tested in the USA are not of the husband/boyfriends DNA (results obtained from multiple testing laboratories). The national average is expected to be more like 3.7% to 13.6 % depending on relationship type.”
So why would so many women want to trap a guy into marriage and kids? If marriage is such a wonderful deal for men, why would a girl have to use any tactics at all? The truth is marriage offers no benefit for the average man and while women may control sex, men control whether or not there will be a commitment after the sex.
I have had several girls tell me they were pregnant. In my 20’s that scared the shit out of me. I was usually good about using a condom and I would still get these scares.
When my ex and I were laying in bed after one lustful romp, she looked at me and said, “I could have one more with you.” – the same girl that already gave me one “accidental” surprise. I didn’t argue, or discuss. I called the Doctor that Monday and set up a vasectomy. Within 2 weeks of that comment I made sure no more kids would be related to me without me having a physical surgery to allow it.
Now, I rarely tell a girl I am just banging that I have had a vasectomy. I also used condoms frequently with the one night stands and infrequent side bangs. If I was dating the girl as her Master (as in a LTR) I never used condoms (after the first few weeks of our new relationship). And since I never talked about the vasectomy I have heard it all:
“I can’t get pregnant… I have X”
“I am on birth control.”
“I should be starting my period.”
and of course,
“I am pregnant, and I think it’s yours.”
I have fun with those – as I know damn well it’s not mine. It’s also likely she isn’t pregnant, just telling you she is to see how you will react. My experience has taught me, the more Alpha and masculine you are, the more you will deal with women talking about, wanting to, or faking pregnancies.
If you honestly don’t believe it could be yours (vasectomy, no broken condom, no sex without condom, etc.) then I would still follow these steps.
She will ask, “Where to?”
“Emergency Care – we are getting a pregnancy blood test right now.”
For any girl faking or just testing you – that will usually display you as a high Alpha and also call her bluff without making you look bad. All but one girl immediately backed down said they wanted to wait a few days to make sure they don’t have their period. Do not let them off very easy. You now know what kind of bat shit crazy you are dealing with.
If she says “ok” then spend the $150 bucks and go get the blood test.
One of my past girlfriends said she could never get pregnant. Then she thought she was pregnant with mine. After I told her about the vasectomy she stopped with the pregnancy bit. This same girl is now 21, single, with 1 kid and 1 on the way. The guys will be giving her a solid grand a month or more for the next 18-22 years. If you catch your girl trying to fake a pregnancy with you or actually trying to get pregnant without telling you all while destroying condoms, I suggest you get rid of her. The longer she is around, the more damage to your life she can do.
On the off chance your girlfriend/wife/ftf is actually pregnant, it’s up to you to decide if you will ride out the 9 months of emotional bullshit with her to test the babies DNA. Thanks to modern medicine, for the low price of only $99 dollars you can get a “Home Paternity Test.”
Some countries and states have laws against a man doing a paternity test without the mothers consent – which is just another way politicians cater to women and give them power over men. No matter what, no matter what laws are broken, I would have a paternity test done. Remember the statistic – you have a 1 in 4 chance of that child not being yours. No matter what, I would never tolerate a women that tried to force another man’s child into being my responsibility. Even if it cost me my life I would not comply with orders to pay child support or care for a child that was not mine.
But what if it is yours? Well, as an Alpha it’s your choice. Talk her into an abortion if you want. Decide to just let her deal with it and know you will have to get a DNA test and likely be paying child support. Once the critter is in her, she literally owns your ass. Whether or not it is ethical, I had one buddy take his “pregnant” girlfriend on a very adrenaline filled and bouncy boat ride. Her period followed shortly there after.
I chose to get custody of my son and raise him to a be a better man than I was. He has been learning these life lessons for years and is already 10 times the man I was. It’s a lot of work, but his life will be better for it.
To all the single fathers out there -Happy Mother’s Day.