Before the 60’s men were seen as strong, capable leaders at the head of the household. Movies portrayed men as masculine, dashing heroes. A man didn’t cry, and he stood up and fought for what he believed in. He was seen a protector and provider. Even in very tough times these men were strong.
Masculine men were looked up to, and feminine women were desired. Both had strengths and weaknesses, that when blended made a powerful whole.
But thru the evolution of our culture and the broad acceptance of feminism, masculine men are dubbed as villains. Men are portrayed as rapist, murders, and child or wife abusers. Yes, some men have done these things. And so have women. And as a society we have portrayed masculine men as bad, and feminine woman as weak. And the media continues to shove these arch-types down our throats. Rarely do we have an action movie where a woman doesn’t have to save a man. Yet you will be hard pressed to find any news stories where this is true. It is the deep nature of men to save women and children in extreme stress situations, so men usually do the saving acting on autopilot. Not a put down for women, just the way are both built.
Politicians crave votes, so they perpetrated the giving of more and more “liberties” to women. More programs, more shelters for abuse victims, more “Male Sensitivity Training” for men and more government programs for women who pump out bastard spawn. And the media, which is paid for by the advertisers cater to these female wishes. They portray more women as strong, independent, don’t need a man types. And they do this so the advertisers can sell more goods to the women. Even the advertisers don’t respect men any more. 9/10 commercials show a woman having to save a man. He is a bumbling, weak bore who needs a woman to keep him and the family running smoothly.
And this is all great as we all laugh it off… it’s not real life.
The 80’s saw media and women wanting the “sensitive man”. A man in touch with his feelings. A man who can emotionally open up and share his most inner beings. This is what women said they wanted, so the media portrayed it, and the men became it. The average man is very sensitive and emotional.
Women wonder why guys are so nice and needy these days? They simply grew up in a culture that portrayed the nice, sensitive man as the man women want. It’s a great and noble thought. Pretty far from the truth, but a great thought.
The problem is our makeup. Our very being. When women said they wanted a “nice guy” who is “in touch with his feelings” they forgot to tell you that this guy was ALREADY a masculine and strong man. This is the man that other girls wanted. This is the man who was untamable. The man who was on a mission, and was going to reach his goal come hell-or-high-water. This man was already Alpha, who just happened to be amazed with this one girl that for her, and only her, he showed a softer and more open side.
Feminism portrayed masculine as bad, thus projecting an entire culture that wanted to be nice and sensitive. If you go thru, not the individual complaints, but the overall thought process, this movement believed if we erased masculinity, then we would have an end to violence, rape, war, abuse, etc. Society would be a UTOPIA. This created a man in touch with his feelings, who was docile and tame while doing exactly what he thought the women wanted.
However, we are creatures and animals. Some people are bad. I know it’s hard to believe, but women tend to be more violent than men. They just tend to display this violence differently or use men to enforce their desire for violence.
And women are programmed on a deep evolutionary level to want a strong man. In a society of weak men, the only men displaying some masculine traits are the thugs, murders and rapist that woman said they despised. The positive masculine traits have been destroyed, leaving only the worse traits masculinity offered.
Nice guys sitting around wondering why the girls treat him like their girlfriend, and the women that say they want “nice guys” actually offer marriage and kids to the murdering rapist.
One of the most infamous examples of this Ted Bundy who received 100’s of love letters and marriage proposals after his arrest. Women from all over jammed courtrooms of his trials each day. Keep in mind, this is a man who raped, murdered and then sometimes had sex with the dead body before decapitating them. All his victims were women.
Jeffrey Dahmer, a serial killer, is said to have had amorous women sending him letters, money, and other gifts during his time in prison.
Serial killer Richard Ramirez (the night stalker) married a female groupie in prison who had written him over 75 letters. During his trial, dozens of women flocked to the courtroom to catch a glimpse of him.
Rapist Josef Fritzl, who imprisoned his daughter in a basement for 24 years and physically assaulted, sexually abused, and raped her numerous times, received hundreds of love letters from women following his arrest.
Men, it is time for you to become masculine once again and bring back the positive traits of masculinity.