Young woman lay on her bed in her lingerie, whilst texting on her mobile phoneWake up 8:00 – check text messages
• two girl friends text
• 5 guys, 3 of which she met last night have text asking “hey, what’s up”, “long time no talk” “you are so beautiful” and “we should go out soon”
• 2 missed calls but she doesn’t know the number

8:30 – check Facebook
• only 37 likes on last self bathroom picture
• 7 emails from guys saying, “hey, what’s up”, “long time no talk” “you are so beautiful” and “we should go out soon”
• 43 new pictures from friends. How did her picture get more likes than mine?
• awwww, mom said hi – hi mom
• hits like button 9 times
• comments on 3 post

9:10 – check Instagram
• 5 new followers
• slutty picture of her and three guys at the bar added
• 4 new messages saying “hey, what’s up”, “long time no talk” “you are so beautiful” and “we should go out soon”
• oh I want those boots/skirt/top/nails/ring/car/lipstick, etc.

9:45 – check email

• 152 new emails – 29 are notifications from social media sites
• one past due notice
• 47 are special shopping deals on boots/skirt/top/nails/ring/car/lipstick, etc
• 1 old ex boyfriend wrote to say “long time no talk – we should go out real soon” – ughhh why can’t he move on
• 3 emails from other guys including the 60 year old self proclaimed photographer that wants her to model for him – she can have the pictures free if she does
• 1 email from old boss saying “long time no talk – we should go out real soon”

10:20 – hits the shower to get ready for class
• hair – 37 minutes
• makeup – 22 minutes
• looking for clothes to wear – 49 minutes
• putting on shorts and tank top – 30 seconds
• 300 garments left around the room

12:08 – hungry but nothing to eat

12:09 – checks text messages, Facebook and Instagram
• 1 text from guy saying “why won’t you text back”
• 5 text from guys saying “hey, what’s up”, “long time no talk” “you are so beautiful” and “we should go out soon”
• Jenny wants to party tonight
• 9 new likes on slutty bar picture
• 3 new followers

12:10 – drinks a Redbull and eats 3 crackers

12:30 – makes math classcollege-girl
• 3 guys say “hey, what’s up”, “long time no talk” “you are so beautiful” and “we should go out soon”
• 1 guy keeps starring at her but when she looks at him he looks down
• professor keeps looking at her tits

1:25 – checks text messages, Facebook and Instagram
• 2 new guys text “hey, what’s up”, “long time no talk” “you are so beautiful” and “we should go out soon”
• Tracy got new boots – she wants new boots – mood ruined for 15 minutes
• 4 new likes on slutty bar picture
• takes self shot sitting in class, post to Facebook and Instagram “School is sooo boring – Margaritas tonight”

1:30 – Feminist Teacher Arrives
• Spends the next hour learning why all men are dogs, assholes, liars and rapist
• Natural conclusion – if we get rid of men life is better
• hates men – mood ruined for 45 minutes

2:25 – checks text messages, Facebook and Instagram
• 2 text from guys saying “why won’t you text back”
• 1 text from guy saying “hey, what’s up”, “long time no talk” “you are so beautiful” and “we should go out soon”
• 12 new likes on slutty bar picture – mood better
• 1 new follower
• only 5 new likes on self class picture with 3 comments of “hey, what’s up”, “long time no talk” “you are so beautiful” and “we should go out soon”

3:45 – gets ready for work
• hair – 14 minutes
• makeup – 10 minutes
• looking for clothes to wear – 22 minutes
• putting on shorts and tank top – 30 seconds

waitress-hot4:30 – makes work at local bar/tavern/restaurant
• checks Facebook, Instagram and Text messages 57 times
• 4 text from guys saying “why won’t you text back”
• 7 text from guys saying “hey, what’s up”, “long time no talk” “you are so beautiful” and “we should go out soon”
• 3 guys she gave her number to at work that night text saying “hey, what’s up”, “long time no talk” “you are so beautiful” and “we should go out soon”
• 14 new likes on slutty bar picture
• 3 new follower
• 7 new likes on self class picture with 3 comments of “hey, what’s up”, “long time no talk” “you are so beautiful” and “we should go out soon”
• 27 guys at work say “do you have a boyfriend”, “I would treat you better than him” “you are so beautiful” and “we should go out”
• 1 guy offers to take her to the lake on Saturday
• 2 guys offer to take her on a motorcycle trip on Sunday
• 1 guy offers to take her to dinner Friday night
• 3 guys offer to tip her very big if she will – pose for a photo/give her number/go out with them
• 2 guys want her to go to a party when she gets off work and smoke 420
• 1 guy offers her X
• 1 guy says to give him her number so he can get her NFL tickets
• 1 guy offers to let her drive his vette
• 1 manager pinches her ass
• 3 guys pinch her ass
• 7 guys touch her in a creepy way
• 27 guys try to hug her bye
• 2 waiters say “hey, what’s up”, “long time no talk” “you are so beautiful” and “we should go out soon”
• 1 other waitress is mad at her because she wore the same black high heels and it was supposed to be her turn – mood ruined for 15 minutes
• gives her number to 7 new guys – 5 so they would leave her alone and stop asking, 2 because they were cute – mood is better
• has her picture taken 31 times by customers and staff

10:30 gets off work – heads to club with friends
• checks Facebook, Instagram and Text messages 57 times
• takes 17 new pictures – post 1
• 1 text from guy saying “why won’t you text back”
• 7 text from guys saying “hey, what’s up”, “long time no talk” “you are so beautiful” and “we should go out soon”
• 2 new likes on slutty bar picture
• 3 new followers
• has 18 offers to buy her drinks
• accepts 5 offers because she was empty
• has to signal girlfriend to save her from creepy guy that bought the last drink and keeps saying he can “see his children in her eyes”
• 33 guys stare at her
• 21 guys approach her and say “do you have a boyfriend”, “I would treat you better than him” “you are so beautiful” and “we should go out”
• 1 guy offers to take her to the lake on Saturday
• 2 guys offer to take her on a motorcycle trip on Sunday
• 1 guy offers to take her to dinner Friday night
• 3 guys offer to tip her very big if she will – pose for a photo/give her number/go out with them
• 2 guys want her to go to a party when she gets off work and smoke 420
• 1 guy offers her X
• 1 guy says to give him her number so he can get her NFL tickets
• 1 guy offers to let her drive his vette
• 3 guys grab her ass
• gives her number to 7 new guys – 5 so they would leave her alone and stop asking, 2 because they were cute

Goes home and before she closes her sleepy eyes at 2 am she checks text messages, Facebook and Instagram
• two girl friends text
• 5 guys, 3 of which she met that night have text asking “hey, what’s up”, “it was nice meeting you” “you are so beautiful” and “we should go out soon”
• 2 missed calls but she doesn’t know the number
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Many of you may think I am exaggerating, and you would be wrong. This is the reality of any 20 something girl that I know who is in college or has a job where she interacts with people in a social setting. This is the amount of male attention she gets every single day.

And this is good news and bad news. The bad news is if you aren’t overly confident, radiating raw masculine sexuality and creating attraction feelings in her, you become just one of the 100 men a day who feed her ego with little to nothing in return. She “likes” that you text her, and send her little jokes, tell her she is beautiful, and offer for her to do things. But she doesn’t fuck “likes.”

The good news is just by realizing this as her reality, you can now standout from the crowd. Do something different, in a good way. Challenge her, verbally spare with her, tell her no and give her those sexual tension feelings she wants.

Truth is, she wants to find a guy that has higher value than herself, someone to make her FEEL attraction and sexual tension. And with so many guys, day in and day out, telling her she is beautiful, hot, sexy wonderful and asking her out or for her number – over and over in every corner of her life: school, work, social media and social she becomes oblivious to it. She literally becomes immune and that type of attention doesn’t even register on her radar. You may think just asking for her number makes you stand out, but if you do it exactly like everyone else you aren’t even going to register in her conscious mind.

I know many guys do not have much confidence. It takes a lot of courage for the average man to even try some of this stuff. So I have one little easy task for you to try. The next time you go to eat and the sexy waitress takes you to a table and says, “How about this one?” Look her in the eye and say, “No (pause) I would rather have that one.”

You aren’t likely to see attraction, but you will likely see respect. That is how little a man says “no” to a girl in our society. Try it, let me know what you see.

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  1. jayce on June 25, 2013

    I think it’s better to just avoid these girls. Too much work and they usually have a lot self-esteem issues.

  2. Mojo on June 26, 2013

    Naw I’ll just wait till she gets knocked up and either gets married/long relationship due to baby. 5-7 years from now she will be divorced/broke up with that guy. She will look “different” and be looking for any “nice guy” to actually take care of her. Well maybe…

  3. BamaLaw on June 26, 2013

    Mojo, really… I think you have missed the point of this site… Nice guys finish last, even with washed up hags… I believe that is the fundamental theory of GAME…

  4. Blissful on June 26, 2013

    You’re so full of shit that the toilet’s jealous.

    • AlphaX Author on June 26, 2013

      Not at all. This is just the reality of every woman I have been with for the last several years, and I want men to understand how to stand out.

      • EM on June 26, 2013

        If every single woman you have personally chosen to date over the last several years has truly been THIS shallow and uninteresting, then that says much more about you and your own interests and motivations then it does about ALL attractive women. Not every “hot girl” has no inner life whatsoever aside from basking in constant male attention.

        • AlphaX Author on June 26, 2013

          Do you believe her being asked out this much is her being shallow or a sign of our times? I would venture it doesn’t portray her as that shallow – we all check our email, text, etc. – and with my company I am always on email. I believe this is more a stab at the average guy and just how mediocre his approach and view of the world is.

          • Don on June 26, 2013

            Don’t try to reason with them. What everyone should get from this article is that being a hot young girl in today’s world means you can get constant validation from men, mainly because of this social media culture.

          • EM on June 27, 2013

            Oh please – don’t even try to pretend that the hypothetical girl in this post isn’t supposed to come across as a vapid bimbo. Her biggest concerns are things like whether she’s received enough likes on her “slutty bar pictures” and her mood is “ruined” by things like another waitress wearing the same shoes.

      • Catherine on December 19, 2013

        Hey Alpha X I need urgent help!

        Im meeting a prince In a couple of weeks for maybe an interview or I might attend a dinner with my news crew where the prince will be present. He’s of course rich, highly respected and obviously gets girls thrown at him. I’m going to be honest I want to create a really good impression in front of him without looking desperate. I know he gets millions of super good looking girls always wanting him etc but how do I an average looking girl spark interest in him for me? I know a lot if people will say if you do have chemistry of course it depends if it’s natural or just be yourself etc and I will be myself of course but there no harm in sharpening your chances right? So if you could give me a bit in insight on how to act around him how to talk etc so he’d be interested. I’d honestly be forever thankful 🙂

  5. Bamalaw04 on June 28, 2013

    While this may be an extreme version of a young female’s mind, I found it entertaining… and there is certainly a percentage of girls act and feel this way. If nothing else, it brings home the point that it is difficult for guys to stand out… so step up.

  6. Alexandra on October 4, 2013

    I am twenty years old and while I do receive this kind of male attention (aspects of your post are a bit exaggerated) I am
    not so vapid as to get my mood ruined by the lack of likes on a photo, or seeing another girl with new boots that I want. Some of us care about other things, are educated, stay aware of current events and have philosophical and intellectual discussions, all while still being attractive. So while I understand the point you are trying to make – nice guys DO finish last – I find this article to be largely stereotypical and offensive. Of course, maybe you are just surrounding yourself with the wrong media/environments/girls that are perpetuating this stereotype, i.e. sports bars and frat parties.

    Go to a local brewery or a theatre party or an independent band line up and you are sure to find a different mindset

    • AlphaX Author on October 4, 2013

      Satire, how little doth people understand thee!

      Exceptions Prove The Rule – As for finding this offensive – Thank you for your complement.
      This is written to give the average guy a peek at what he can’t see, not to help you.

  7. Random Guy on December 11, 2013

    If personality is the most important thing, and you’re judging guys based on “hey, whatsup?” texts, that makes you incredibly shallow. You think you’re an amazing catch but as a nice guy, I wouldn’t waste my time on someone this full of them self.

  8. Steph on April 21, 2014

    is she only 20 how oes she work at a bar. You have to be 21 to serve alcohol.

    • AlphaX Author on April 21, 2014

      False – most bar/grills you only have to be 18 to serve. Check your local Hooters…

  9. cylde on November 18, 2014

    Eye opener , this article makes sense. Really puts it into perspective thanks

  10. Dave on April 11, 2015

    I think some of the commenters missed the point, when they say things like “Nice guys finish last.” The thing is, you can be nice, but at the same time be confident, manly, have self-esteem, and stand out. You can be nice without drooling over women and being their doormat. You can be gentle, kind, and caring at times (women do actually like this) or even all the time, without sacrificing being strong, your own person, opinionated, and wiling to say “no” to a woman. The guys who are strong, confident, and stand out, also tend to take this to an extreme and are not nice. I think a lot of women want a guy who is both: Nice, but MAN. “Nice” is not a bad word like people think it is; it doesn’t mean “wimp”. Unfortunately, most people in this world are not very nice. When I say “nice”, I mean friendly, caring, willing to give of yourself for others. We need people – both male and female- to be nicer. This takes effort. One thing that can be disheartening is to be nice, but to be told being nice is a bad thing, something you will be punished for. So my advice is: If you’re not a nice guy, strive to be one. If you are a nice guy, keep being nice, but make sure you man up too.

    • Snuddy on April 16, 2015

      Well I think that depends. Being pleasent and friendly is great (he mentions this many times), as for it makes you more fun to be around and easy to build rapport with. The problem with focusing on being “nice” is that it kind of takes the focus off the more important part (for being attractive), which is the frame you have. I went through an “asshole” phase where I was kinda rude, but I’ve learned since that the guy that gets the most social attention is the confident nice guy.

      Combine that with knowing how to tease (playfully but with edge, and that edge doesnt always sound that “nice”), and the social proof can be easily translated into a lot of attraction from the girls around him.

  11. Maggie on May 22, 2015

    I read one of your articles which stated that you would ‘rate’ a photo if I sent it to you. I am in my early 50’s and would like your opinion if I should just throw in the towel and forget about dating an Alpha, Beta or any other man for that matter.

    Kindly would you provide an email etc. where I may send a photo?

    Thank you.

    • AlphaX Author on May 22, 2015

      AlphaX@pipubs.com

      And I dated a 50 year old when I was 33 ish. A very hot 50 year old. http://www.pipubs.com/older-women-are-for-younger-men/

      Personally, you never throw in the towel. You may have to adjust your expectations. When I was a “nicer” man, I couldn’t date attractive younger, or even my age, women. As An Alpha, I have more options. For example, I am 44, my long term girl is 22. Assuming I am single and alive at 70, I will still be dating women 30+ years younger than me.

      No matter your age, you can always work to be more attractive than most girls in your age group. That still gives you the option of dating a wider pool of men.

  12. Old Man on November 20, 2016

    Dudes…. you’re killing me. Your generation was F’d in the collective A by social media and a generation of parents sporting a 50%+ divorce rate. Forget about gender, race, and all those other happy horseshit social categories that the last few Baby Boomer professors are jamming down your throat like they matter, keeping you angry, confused, and divided as f–k by the media and a country that just voted itself back to medieval levels of ignorance. Ladies let me tell you something…. a nice man who will work his ass off for you is worth his weight in gold. Those “feminist” professors the author cited who teach you why all men are rapists and pigs ? You know why they live in the Ivory Tower, tucked away behind a stack of books? Because the business world would eat them up and shit them out faster than a California hippy drinking a Wheatgrass and kale smoothie. When you put ideas ahead of people you choose philosophic arguments over relationships. Life cann be summed up neatly by theories. Kindness is not weakness. Nice guys, in REAL life, do not finish last. In the 1AM, booze and coke-fueled bar scene, everyone is a prostitute. Your generation is having a tough time with relationships because very few people have any healthy values anymore. Being a SJW and shouting your beliefs at people til they submit is not a value set. Spending 4 hrs per day on social media is waste of each precious breath of air you take. Worrying about what other people think is pointless. The faster you get over that the better. And finally… mark Zuckerberg should be branded Public Enemy #1 for creating software that has turned the entire planet into a voyeuristic shit show that helped Trump get elected. That’s the rant from the 40-something crowd. As Peter Griffin would say… “and that is what grinds my gears”.

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