Dear Alpha, 
I’ve liked a guy for quite a while now. At first we got on like a house on fire but eventually he withdrew and we talked less and less. I didn’t pursue him during his withdrawal nor became needy but I did have strong feelings for him. He eventually started dating a close friend of his who happened to be my good friends aswell & she admitted she was not into him as more then a friend & wasn’t willing to do long distance with him as he’s leaving the country.
One day I get bombarded with messages by him, I didn’t reply to any. He then texts me and I remain very professional until we have a normal conversation & after a few hours he asks me out. I think for hours and decide to agree though I’m not even sure when he broke up with his girlfriend which obviously makes me a rebound I’m guessing. During our extremely short relationship I try to be understanding and supporting but I don’t feel loved like I should. I want him to give me more attention. As we’re both moving to the same country he takes about our future together. After a whole day of not texting me I decide to break off our week long relationship and in my breakup message I tell him how I can’t do this and how he hurt me by playing with other girls but now I’ve moved on & refuse to settle for the feeling of being unloved. He told me he loved me and to think over it once again but I was firm in my decision and told him maybe we could be friends someday. He never replied. It’s been about a week and we haven’t contacted each other after that day. He is very rich and well known but he is desperate to some extent. I want him back but I don’t want to come off needy etc. my friends told me to start uploading pictures looking really hot aswell as were both moving to the same country so start uploading pictures with captions ‘can’t believe I’ll be living here alone in 2 months’ I find this immature but it may work. I am aware he is talking to his ex and other girls. Is there any way I can get this man to be mine and only mine?
Hi Elizabeth,
Thank you for the question. Based on your writing and views, I think you are young, but rather intelligent. If you have read any of my material you know my first and foremost advice for women is to work on their looks – that doesn’t mean look slutty, but it does mean looking good.
After that, since you and this guy did have a some interaction, why not just strike up a text message with him. Start friendly (since you firmly told him you don’t want him), then when you feel he is really engaged, be a little flirty. If he starts full on flirting, pull back a hair so he has some room to chase you. If he is a “desperate to some extent” this really will get him to chase you. If he is an Alpha, this won’t work and you will end up being frustrated while liking him more.
As for being only yours? I have no way of knowing that. To be honest, I don’t think so. He sounds like a young Alpha, not all that interested in being tied down. I have written before, there is no way a female can have power over an Alpha Male without him letting her. And if he does… she likely won’t like him anymore.
Now, For the GENTLEMEN reading this.
Did you pick up on the clues?
Dated a guy for awhile… (Alpha Law 6)
Got on like a house fire… (Attraction)
He withdrew…. (Alpha Law 17)
Started dating her friend… (Alpha Law 15)
Bombarded by text messages… (Alpha Law 9)
He ask her out and she goes again… (Alpha Law 13)
Extremely short relationship… (Alpha Law 18)
Don’t feel loved like I should… (Alpha Law 4)
After a whole day of not texting she breaks up… (Alpha Law 16)
Hurts her by playing with other girls… (Alpha Law 5)
I want him back… (Alpha Law 5)
Thank you Elizabeth, yours is a prime example of why men should be more Alpha. Please let me know if the “friendly, how are you text” work.
Good luck,
AlphaX
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