Hi K,

This is a great question. To start with, yes, if you are a member of this group, I will make you a custom subliminal message. Send me the affirmations you want and pick a background sound from the site.

The Alpha Male subliminal messages have these embedded affirmations:

I am an Alpha male
I am dominant
I am always relaxed and calm
Women love my raw power
I always flirt and challenge women in a positive frame
I am the prize
I am assertive and powerful
I am extremely confident
All women are naturally attracted to me
I am a natural leader others want to follow
I am totally secure in myself
I speak with authority
Women are naturally attracted to my alpha characteristics
I am highly respected
I make women feel safe and secure

You may notice that everything in the subliminal message affirmations actually supports all of the positive traits you said you feel in your email. I know these work, and when coupled with the rest of the skills, you can elevate your own life to have just about anything you want.

I also don’t see anything in those affirmations that would create anger or make you less congruent. However, think about what you said – “…, I also seem to feel more dominant with a short fuse for bullshit female tests.” Now, the entire premise of being “Alpha” is to have a wider selection of female sexual mates. Some Alphas have many sexual partners, some find the one they want and stop. But being Alpha allows them to manage these relationship well above the average person and to select the partner(s) they want. More, better, hotter sex with less negative feeling, test and emotions.

It also makes the woman much happier.

The subliminal programs should make you feel more dominant, that is what they are designed to do. But think about the short fuse for a shit test… Now ask yourself, “What would the average man in a situation with a woman shit testing him do?”

“Be nice.”

“Apologize and smooth things over.”

“Try to defuse the situation.”

The average male’s programming is to get the girl to “like” him by displaying nice, supplicating behavior.

Of course, this rarely, if ever, works.

But what would an Alpha that has a lot of sexual choice in the world do? He wouldn’t tolerate much bullshit. He wouldn’t take many outburst or ill treatment. He would likely throw the test back at her as a challenge. In the most charming, yet powerful way, he would dare her to be so stupid as to pass him up.

You see, if you really are an Alpha with a large pool of potential mates you can choose, you aren’t going to tolerate much BS from one particular partner.

Of course what does this one trait (not putting up with a shit test) or turning the shit test around and challenging, her do?

It proves your sexual worth and demonstrates you place higher value on yourself. Handling these correctly will actually sexually excite her. 1000’s of times I have challenged right back on one of these test and seen the girls eyes absolutely light up. I can see her flush as her nipples get hard and her body automatically goes into “sex” mode.

She is biologically programmed to do this. It is not a conscious thought, but rather her brain and genetic programming alerting her that a powerful sexual being is in her presence and she cannot stop the feelings of sexual excitement.

And my entire site is geared to teach men how to ignite this fire in women.

When my reality started to change, and I started truly understanding this mating ritual between men and women (or in your case, the dominant woman and her lover), it use to make me mad too. It was frustrating because: 1) I finally saw myself as higher value and didn’t want to deal with it 2) I didn’t want to have to confront the situation directly and risk losing her. I felt the girl should just know my value.

But if you have read the shit test section you should realize that a girl testing you is her just making sure you are the “Alpha” or dominant one. The incongruent feelings are likely your subconscious shifting from “go-along-get-along” to a more in control and dominant person. As the change becomes complete a test like this will actually excite you. You will know you are one step closer to the girl happily surrendering her biggest treasure to you.

My suggestion is to not get mad at these test, just turn them around and have fun with them. Re-read the shit test section, and realize that when one of your girls is shit testing you she is just making sure you are worthy of her. She wants you to handle the test so you excite her. Think of it as verbal foreplay.

It is a good thing.

Alpha X

UPDATE

Hi again, Thank you graciously for your feedback and insight. EVERYTHING you mentioned is 100% accurate and true. I believe my conscious hasn’t caught up to my subconscious. My conditioning has made it difficult at best to embrace my dominance and sexuality, I’m coming through the other side slowly. Like you mentioned, I’m letting go of the “go along, to get along” mentality and it’s frustrating because everyone, especially women have been trained to bitch men out and test to get what they want even if that’s not what the respond to emotionally and sexually. It’s funny because you said I should look at those test as a sign of attraction and that she’s just testing my armour and I do, I’m totally unreactive and little amused. It’s the dialogue in my head that goes “really, why are you making this so hard when you and I both know you want me.” Just last weekend I slept with twins (not together but same night) and one resisted and when I took the other sister it totally raised the first sister’s attraction which I knew it would and be easy. My old self would have felt guilty for my attraction, believing I should only be attracted to one. I’m having a rather difficult time accepting women throwing themselves at me, it just feels a little uncomfortable coming from a place of chasing and pursuing. I see the light at the end of the tunnel and my female energy is slowly letting go of the resistance to the “one” and accepting that every girl is the one…in this moment and that’s okay. lol It really is hard to see things as they are as opposed to what we feel it should be. Thank you for helping to lift the veil. Much gratitude.
K

ps I can’t make a decision about the commands I would like (there goes my woman side kicking in lol) I want to concentrate on business and financial abundance and I’m not quite sure what my blocks are as yet, but I’ll get back to you.

You are most welcome and nice job on the Twins!

AlphaX

I wanted to drop you a line, however, and ask for some up-front advice (which I have ABSOLUTELY no problem paying you for – as a young business owner I realize nothing of value is free); I have a bit of an interesting situation that I’ve wandered myself into, that I’ve managed to keep at bay for a while, but I’m beginning to venture into the realm of ‘Oh shit, what do I do?!’ My business does [Edit: Removed but a cool job with fast cars]; it’s a small shop, and I only have a handful of employees. Early last year, I hired a secretary to help handle the calls coming in – an applicant came in off the street and fit exactly the profile of what I was looking for – in particular, she is INCREDIBLY passionate about cars (her dad owns a shop where she’s from).

At the time she began working here, she had a boyfriend along with one particular trait that I was certain would keep me from having any interest whatsoever in her. Over time, her relationship fizzled out and my interest in her grew (and hers in me, as well). I’ve been treating it as two separate situations, since we spend all day all week in close proximity with each other (1. Work / secretary; 2. female interest); BUT as I’ve only just begun reading your Alpha Training, I wanted to ask if there are any particular things I should do or ways I should conduct myself around her , since it’s a bit harder to do the phone/text methods and some of the other techniques and such with someone who I see every day. Any information or insight is much appreciated – and let me know what I owe you for anything!!

Thanks again!!

[Edit:Name Changed By Request] Tony”

Hi Tony,

Thank you for the compliments and good luck with the business. I always admire men that strike out on their own, and your business looked very cool. Thanks for sharing your site.

As for your fantastic question, I have 2 different ways to answer – and both of them are technically correct.

To begin with, I highly recommend you do not date (go out to drinks with, sleep with, watch a movie with, marry, share cookies with, buy presents, or even flirt) with a woman you work with – or that works for you. I actually recommend you don’t even acknowledge she is a female. As a business owner and the president of several multimillion dollar organizations I know all too well the temptations and trials that await an Alpha Executive.

Back in my mid 20’s, with a similar life like yours (I could date them, but rarely keep them attracted) I made the mistake of dating and sleeping with an extremely hot, 18 year old intern. She was rather coy about our relationship, always hinting that she thought I was “hot” or leaving a lingering touch as we talked or walked by each other. She didn’t come right out and say it, but most of the office personnel assumed we were dating.

After a few weeks, we had a dating disagreement. You see, I felt like I was dating a cool college chick that would be heading back to class in a month. I felt that I could still go have drinks at a party or bar with friends. I did not think I had to spend every waking moment with her, or marry her. What I hadn’t learned yet was the true nature of women or the “50 Shades of Crazy” they tend to go when they feel slighted by a man just out of their league.

One night, I had gone to drinks with friends. She had stopped by my house and I wasn’t home. That’s about all there was to the fight.

The next few weeks were a real pain in the ass. She would burst into tears at work over me – and the other men and women would rush to comfort her. She would just show up at my house late at night, and if I didn’t do whatever she wanted, the next day would be a very distorted story at work about how mean I am, and the hateful things I had supposedly done.

Shortly after that, I left the company and headed out on my own. Since that time I have worked in several environments, with up to 1000 employees reporting to me. I have been an executive reporting to the CEO of a $3 billion dollar company with 7000 total employees. I have had every type of girl approach, hint, flirt and basically make it known they were available for my pleasure. That includes married, engaged, and otherwise taken women.

Since that first lesson, and learning more about female nature, I wouldn’t even have a conversation with a female in my office with a closed door without having another colleague in the room.

I have seen men fired for sexual harassment charges because they slept with someone in the office, and when the relationship was over, the woman retaliated. And let’s be honest – almost anything 2 people will do in a sexual relationship is considered sexual harassment if the woman changes how she feels about the man. The same touch that made her shiver for you could have her screaming assault if she has lost feelings for you or wants to get even with you.

Even my ex-wife went out of her way to complain that I had cheated on her to my own company employees, and even though I hadn’t, I still had to do morale and damage control.

I know business owners that had to settle 6 figure lawsuits with ex-employees they slept with to make larger sexual harassment lawsuits go away.

Our government takes sexual harassment very serious – assuming it is the woman charging the man. They (the female) will not have to pay for legal fees, as the state will likely take up the cause. And you can blow through $50,000 in lawyer fees before even going to trial. From a business standpoint, it is just cheaper to settle with the girl than fight and clear your name.

So my advice with a girl you work with – ignore her. Don’t even flirt. When you are at work, put on your blinders. This is where you build your wealth. At work you only see people you work with. Not potential sexual partners.

Now, when I am in business situations, I turn off 2 key elements – flirting and sexual tension. I simply do not react in a fun flirty way with women at work. And I urge all men to do the same.

I did, however, promise you 2 answers.

If my advice and the destruction I have seen these women cause is not enough to keep you out of this situation, or you have a few hundred thousand laying around that you want to spend on lawyers, then landing this girl is fairly easy.

The first thing you stop doing is trying. Don’t hang around her desk or try to flirt in “her” space. You let her come to your space, then you flirt with her in slight sexual tones, build tension and challenge her. Like when she comes to your office to hand you something, as she walks away tell her to “STOP!” – as she turns around to say, “What?” you say, “I was just enjoying the view.” Then look her dead in the eye and smirk. Let that tension build then go back to whatever you were focused on.

You also make her say “please” and “thank you”. These are mild compliance test that offer her a challenge.

Her: “Hand me that fax.”
You: “PLEASE hand me that fax?” with a smirk

Do this a few times and she will know she has to treat you with at least surface respect – which is more than most men get.

You also tell her more of what you want her to do and criticize what she has done wrong. This is said in a matter of fact, “I am the boss” tone – not to be mean, and not flirty. It is said flatly like “this is just how you have to perform if you are going to work here.”

For example, if she didn’t get all of the filing done you simply look her directly in the eye and say something like, “Mary, you didn’t get those files done yesterday. Will you have it done before you leave?”

Or if she hands you a half scribbled note of someone that called, “Marry, is this letter an “f”? Who was this again? Next time please write more clearly.”

At times, you will also want to use conflicting messages. I use this a lot with waitresses or other girls I run into in the retail industry.

Me: “Would you get me X.” said in a normal flat tone.
Her: “Sure, it will just be a moment.”
Me: “That’s ok, take your time (said in a normal manner).” Then immediately after, “What the hell is taking so long?” said in a sarcastic, slightly mean tone.
Her: She will turn and look at you with a little shock.
Me: Smirking and looking her in the eyes to judge her.
Her: She will smile and turn away.
Me: “Hurry up!” Said very demanding.

Now, if at times you are flirting with her and creating sexual tension by being a challenge and other times you are just “the boss” that expects her to get her job done, she is going to feel a roller coaster of emotions. You are rewarding her with a non-predictive pattern, and this is the same pattern that makes gambling so addictive.

After a few weeks of this, you can pretty much tell her whatever you want and she will respond. Follow my system for inviting her out for a drink and you should be good to go.

Lastly, I really recommend you place her on a back-burner and learn with other girls. Every time you deal with a female (outside of your work) you flirt, tease, challenge and create attraction. You practice these sections, and in 2 months you will have more girls to date than you will have time for.

And none of those girls will be able to claim “workplace sexual harassment” or sue you for a legal settlement because you didn’t do what they wanted.

AlphaX

UPDATED:
Absolutely perfect, and exactly what I needed to know and hear.

You’re completely right about this being where I build my wealth – and I hadn’t thought about the possibility of a dating conflict exploding in the workplace. I worked hard enough to get here, it’s time to put the blinders on and keep building!

Thank you again SO much!

You are welcome.

Really there’s lots I need to learn & understand. What’s the best way to go about this?
Thanks,
—Rick

Hey Rick,

Sorry about that – Paypal happens to be the easiest to set up with my theme – but it isn’t the user friendliest. Please cancel whichever one you want.

And thank you for the compliment. Rather that write a bunch of material that sounds “awesome” I figured I would really try to help men out. I have been researching and studying this for almost 15 years. It is an eye opener for sure.

Sounds as if your divorce story is like mine – I truly am sorry man. I think, based on all of my life experiences (including the early deaths of several of my best friends) divorce is one of the most devastating things that can happen for anyone. If, as the men, we were also the primary breadwinner and we didn’t want the divorce, then the sting of broken promises, betrayed loyalty and the ripping away of assets built on our efforts (that we know she is going to use to sleep with the new guy) creates a core of anger few who haven’t been there can understand.

Let me start by encouraging you – after learning a lot of this, I have probably the best sex/love/affectionate relationships I ever have. I am still extremely biased, and I will never give up my personal power again, but with that, I relish the rebuild of my life and all of the exciting “pieces” it has brought. If you were married for 15 years I am going to assume you are in your mid 40’s like me…. so keep in mind, you are in your prime. From 18 up will fuck you. As a matter of fact, many girls have a fantasy of the hot older guy, so you just have to learn how to retrain your mind a bit and you will be chased by these younger girls.

With that, I highly recommend you hit the gym. HARD. I trained like a mad man for years after the divorce. It really helps with confidence: coupled with the rest of what you learn here, you will walk with more Alpha swagger naturally, and women will take notice. It’s not just the body, but the attitude and why it is in section one. Secondly, while I studied a lot of pickup material, this really only helped me after I nailed the internal belief aspects (like you mentioned). I would focus on the Section 2: Tactical Self Development and all of the sub-components. When you really understand this, you will know exactly where to focus your subconscious to get whatever you want. Specifically focus on “NLP Understanding and Reality” especially reframes and removing limiting beliefs coupled with “Language Pattern Development“. When you start really understanding these, your life will begin to change. You will start understanding how to communicate with people (and women) in a much more powerful way. You will also start to learn what had held you back and how to remove it.

I hope this helps, and please feel free to ask me any other questions you have. Welcome to freedom!

Most Sincerely,
AlphaX

Jeremy

I stumbled across your website a couple of months ago somehow (ROK?). After reading through some of your articles I realized you had some good advice which was clearly explained with no bullshit or fluff (like any good engineer’s written work). Anyway, a friend of mine, as of a few weeks ago, was a college virgin. My other friends and I had tried to get him laid but we just couldn’t figure out WHY he couldn’t. I told him about your site and he starting digesting the “Laws of Alpha” and all of the other free content you have.

So now two months later and I’m getting weekly texts from him detailing his recent, sexual escapades. Whenever I stop by facebook I can count on seeing a new picture of him with a new, attractive woman on his arm. He’s banged three girls in the past six weeks or so. I spoke with him the other day and he told me you’re website’s changed his life.

I’ve always considered myself pretty good with women but as of late he’s pulling hotter ass than I am. A few minutes ago I said fuck it and signed up for your member content. Looking forward to seeing where it takes me.

You’ve accomplished through sharing your material what my friends and I couldn’t accomplish in all of high school. That’s enough of a sell for the broke ass college student I am.

Thanks for helping out my boy,
Braydon