Comments on: What To Do If She Flakes https://www.pipubs.com/what-to-do-if-she-flakes/ Alpha Secrets Wed, 26 Dec 2018 04:34:57 +0000 hourly 1 By: Mark Zogg-Kellett https://www.pipubs.com/what-to-do-if-she-flakes/#comment-19174 Wed, 26 Dec 2018 04:34:57 +0000 http://www.pipubs.com/?p=2856#comment-19174 In reply to Jesse wright.

Sounds like she might just be using you. If she wanted a real relationship with you why bother with her Badoo account and guy friends? I’m in a different boat. I met this really beautiful girl at church and talked to her a bit and got her number last Thursday. So I texted her today wishing her a Merry Christmas and she didn’t respond. So I checked her Instagram and she posted something like
2 hours ago. I’m really into her but she’s blowing me off. My plan is to just say hi to her and not show much interest. Too bad though. When I talked to her I just asked her generalized questions and I’m not trying to have sex with her, I’m looking for a real relationship.

]]> By: AlphaX https://www.pipubs.com/what-to-do-if-she-flakes/#comment-15115 Fri, 30 Dec 2016 21:13:34 +0000 http://www.pipubs.com/?p=2856#comment-15115 In reply to Jesse wright.

A party girl – you have been talking about having sex for 2-3 months? Lot’s of text – dude, you are the beta provider. Look at your time with her. Do you buy drinks, dinner or other activities? Do you fix her stuff or spend a ton of time talking about her problems and issues…. you are the gay male friend. You need to rethink your approach with her.

]]> By: Jesse wright https://www.pipubs.com/what-to-do-if-she-flakes/#comment-15110 Thu, 29 Dec 2016 01:59:46 +0000 http://www.pipubs.com/?p=2856#comment-15110 I am currently dating this girl, 28 owns her own apartment, car, dog etc. I met her on this online dating app Badoo and we’ve been talking and having sex for a while now, like two months going on three. She originally told me she wanted a man to settle down with but with someone who respects her drinking, partying habit. I’m starting to realize she gets alot alot of messages, calls from “guy” friends. Her Badoo account is active everyday still. On the flip side, she introduced me to her mother, some of her friends also. So I want to know, is she just keeping me around for sex or does she want a relationship?

]]> By: johnc https://www.pipubs.com/what-to-do-if-she-flakes/#comment-14821 Sat, 30 Jan 2016 19:33:08 +0000 http://www.pipubs.com/?p=2856#comment-14821 I got stood up in the worst and most confusing way. A gal, actually one that I know in a professional manner, and I seemed to hit it off. She let me come by her house to borrow an item that I wished to try out before I committed to one. In a later phone conversation she told me how much she likes me. I responded in kind and suggested a dinner date. She agreed to it. I called her the next afternoon and asked her out to dinner. She suggested that I come by her house and watch a movie instead. I came by at 8:00 and rang the doorbell. She opened the door and stared at me blankly for a moment and then asked me what I wanted. I said to her, ‘You invited me over to watch a movie with you’. She then told me that she had me confused with someone else. My thoughts were, how in this day and age can someone not know who they are talking to on the phone, with caller id and the fact that she talked to me at length the night before. I apologized and left, hyperventilating for a good hour afterwards. She later texted me, apologizing for the huge misunderstanding. I was pretty brunt in my response. She seemed genuinely concerned about losing me as a friend. I backed down and let the matter drop. Predictably, I haven’t heard from her since. My confusion about the situation is if she genuinely confused me for another gentleman, something that I have a hard time accepting, or if she flaked out on me in the most cruel way imaginable. I plan to stay away from her but this really messed with my psyche.

]]> By: Scott https://www.pipubs.com/what-to-do-if-she-flakes/#comment-10308 Sat, 10 Oct 2015 13:14:53 +0000 http://www.pipubs.com/?p=2856#comment-10308 If you schedule a specific time to meet up with a girl and she flakes on you and you try calling her later and she doesn’t answer her phone like a complete bitch, then you can text her some smart ass remark or call her out on her rude behavior by asking something like “I’m very curious, are you a lesbian?”.

]]> By: Matt Endfield https://www.pipubs.com/what-to-do-if-she-flakes/#comment-3791 Sat, 04 Oct 2014 06:30:33 +0000 http://www.pipubs.com/?p=2856#comment-3791 Dude, you are genius!!! I’ve been stood up alot left with a broken heart, none of the girls called back after I text or call them stuff like “I’m sorry we missed didn’t meet, hope things are ok,”
what I learn from here is to value myself more, ‘my time is valuable’
I like this method, and will use it with respect. We need more good advice giving guys like you.
Thanks!

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