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		By: Old Man		</title>
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		<dc:creator><![CDATA[Old Man]]></dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Sun, 20 Nov 2016 15:03:15 +0000</pubDate>
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					<description><![CDATA[Dudes.... you&#039;re killing me. Your generation was F&#039;d in the collective A by social media and a generation of parents sporting a 50%+ divorce rate. Forget about gender, race, and all those other happy horseshit social categories that the last few Baby Boomer professors are jamming  down your throat like they matter, keeping you angry, confused, and divided as f--k by the media and a country that just voted itself back to medieval levels of ignorance. Ladies let me tell you something.... a nice man who will work his ass off for you is worth his weight in gold. Those &quot;feminist&quot; professors the author cited who teach you why all men are rapists and pigs ? You know why they live in the Ivory Tower, tucked away behind a stack of books? Because the business world would eat them up and shit them out faster than a California hippy drinking a Wheatgrass and kale smoothie. When you put ideas ahead of people you choose philosophic arguments over relationships. Life cann be summed up neatly by theories. Kindness is not weakness. Nice guys, in REAL life, do not finish last. In the 1AM, booze and coke-fueled bar scene, everyone is a prostitute. Your generation is having a tough time with relationships because very few people have any healthy values anymore. Being a SJW and shouting your beliefs at people til they submit is not a value set. Spending 4 hrs per day on social media is  waste of each precious breath of air you take. Worrying about what other people think is pointless. The faster you get over that the better. And finally... mark Zuckerberg should be branded Public Enemy #1 for creating software that has turned the entire planet into a voyeuristic shit show that helped Trump get elected. That&#039;s the rant from the 40-something crowd. As Peter Griffin would say... &quot;and that is what grinds my gears&quot;.]]></description>
			<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Dudes&#8230;. you&#8217;re killing me. Your generation was F&#8217;d in the collective A by social media and a generation of parents sporting a 50%+ divorce rate. Forget about gender, race, and all those other happy horseshit social categories that the last few Baby Boomer professors are jamming  down your throat like they matter, keeping you angry, confused, and divided as f&#8211;k by the media and a country that just voted itself back to medieval levels of ignorance. Ladies let me tell you something&#8230;. a nice man who will work his ass off for you is worth his weight in gold. Those &#8220;feminist&#8221; professors the author cited who teach you why all men are rapists and pigs ? You know why they live in the Ivory Tower, tucked away behind a stack of books? Because the business world would eat them up and shit them out faster than a California hippy drinking a Wheatgrass and kale smoothie. When you put ideas ahead of people you choose philosophic arguments over relationships. Life cann be summed up neatly by theories. Kindness is not weakness. Nice guys, in REAL life, do not finish last. In the 1AM, booze and coke-fueled bar scene, everyone is a prostitute. Your generation is having a tough time with relationships because very few people have any healthy values anymore. Being a SJW and shouting your beliefs at people til they submit is not a value set. Spending 4 hrs per day on social media is  waste of each precious breath of air you take. Worrying about what other people think is pointless. The faster you get over that the better. And finally&#8230; mark Zuckerberg should be branded Public Enemy #1 for creating software that has turned the entire planet into a voyeuristic shit show that helped Trump get elected. That&#8217;s the rant from the 40-something crowd. As Peter Griffin would say&#8230; &#8220;and that is what grinds my gears&#8221;.</p>
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		By: AlphaX		</title>
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		<dc:creator><![CDATA[AlphaX]]></dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Fri, 22 May 2015 21:10:35 +0000</pubDate>
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					<description><![CDATA[In reply to &lt;a href=&quot;https://www.pipubs.com/the-realities-of-the-20-year-old-hot-girl/#comment-5931&quot;&gt;Maggie&lt;/a&gt;.

AlphaX@pipubs.com

And I dated a 50 year old when I was 33 ish.  A very hot 50 year old.  http://www.pipubs.com/older-women-are-for-younger-men/

Personally, you never throw in the towel.  You may have to adjust your expectations.  When I was a &quot;nicer&quot; man, I couldn&#039;t date attractive younger, or even my age, women.  As An Alpha, I have more options.  For example, I am 44, my long term girl is 22.  Assuming I am single and alive at 70, I will still be dating women 30+ years younger than me.  

No matter your age, you can always work to be more attractive than most girls in your age group.  That still gives you the option of dating a wider pool of men.]]></description>
			<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>In reply to <a href="https://www.pipubs.com/the-realities-of-the-20-year-old-hot-girl/#comment-5931">Maggie</a>.</p>
<p><a href="mailto:AlphaX@pipubs.com">AlphaX@pipubs.com</a></p>
<p>And I dated a 50 year old when I was 33 ish.  A very hot 50 year old.  <a href="http://www.pipubs.com/older-women-are-for-younger-men/" rel="ugc">http://www.pipubs.com/older-women-are-for-younger-men/</a></p>
<p>Personally, you never throw in the towel.  You may have to adjust your expectations.  When I was a &#8220;nicer&#8221; man, I couldn&#8217;t date attractive younger, or even my age, women.  As An Alpha, I have more options.  For example, I am 44, my long term girl is 22.  Assuming I am single and alive at 70, I will still be dating women 30+ years younger than me.  </p>
<p>No matter your age, you can always work to be more attractive than most girls in your age group.  That still gives you the option of dating a wider pool of men.</p>
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		By: Maggie		</title>
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		<dc:creator><![CDATA[Maggie]]></dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Fri, 22 May 2015 20:58:24 +0000</pubDate>
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					<description><![CDATA[I read one of your articles which stated that you would &#039;rate&#039; a photo if I sent it to you.  I am in my early 50&#039;s and would like your opinion if I should just throw in the towel and forget about dating an Alpha, Beta or any other man for that matter.  

Kindly would you provide an email etc. where I may send a photo?

Thank you.]]></description>
			<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>I read one of your articles which stated that you would &#8216;rate&#8217; a photo if I sent it to you.  I am in my early 50&#8217;s and would like your opinion if I should just throw in the towel and forget about dating an Alpha, Beta or any other man for that matter.  </p>
<p>Kindly would you provide an email etc. where I may send a photo?</p>
<p>Thank you.</p>
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		By: Snuddy		</title>
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		<dc:creator><![CDATA[Snuddy]]></dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Thu, 16 Apr 2015 01:05:40 +0000</pubDate>
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					<description><![CDATA[In reply to &lt;a href=&quot;https://www.pipubs.com/the-realities-of-the-20-year-old-hot-girl/#comment-5902&quot;&gt;Dave&lt;/a&gt;.

Well I think that depends. Being pleasent and friendly is great (he mentions this many times), as for it makes you more fun to be around and easy to build rapport with. The problem with focusing on being &quot;nice&quot; is that it kind of takes the focus off the more important part (for being attractive), which is the frame you have. I went through an &quot;asshole&quot; phase where I was kinda rude, but I&#039;ve learned since that the guy that gets the most social attention is the confident nice guy. 

Combine that with knowing how to tease (playfully but with edge, and that edge doesnt always sound that &quot;nice&quot;),  and the social proof can be easily translated into a lot of attraction from the girls around him.]]></description>
			<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>In reply to <a href="https://www.pipubs.com/the-realities-of-the-20-year-old-hot-girl/#comment-5902">Dave</a>.</p>
<p>Well I think that depends. Being pleasent and friendly is great (he mentions this many times), as for it makes you more fun to be around and easy to build rapport with. The problem with focusing on being &#8220;nice&#8221; is that it kind of takes the focus off the more important part (for being attractive), which is the frame you have. I went through an &#8220;asshole&#8221; phase where I was kinda rude, but I&#8217;ve learned since that the guy that gets the most social attention is the confident nice guy. </p>
<p>Combine that with knowing how to tease (playfully but with edge, and that edge doesnt always sound that &#8220;nice&#8221;),  and the social proof can be easily translated into a lot of attraction from the girls around him.</p>
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		By: Dave		</title>
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		<dc:creator><![CDATA[Dave]]></dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Sat, 11 Apr 2015 18:00:56 +0000</pubDate>
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					<description><![CDATA[I think some of the commenters missed the point, when they say things like &quot;Nice guys finish last.&quot;   The thing is, you can be nice, but at the same time be confident, manly, have self-esteem, and stand out.   You can be nice without drooling over women and being their doormat.  You can be gentle, kind, and caring at times (women do actually like this) or even all the time, without sacrificing being strong, your own person, opinionated, and wiling to say &quot;no&quot; to a woman.    The guys who are strong, confident, and stand out, also tend to take this to an extreme and are not nice.    I think a lot of women want a guy who is both:  Nice, but MAN.   &quot;Nice&quot; is not a bad word like people think it is;  it doesn&#039;t mean &quot;wimp&quot;.   Unfortunately, most people in this world are not very nice.   When I say &quot;nice&quot;, I mean friendly, caring, willing to give of yourself for others.   We need people - both male and female- to be nicer.   This takes effort.   One thing that can be disheartening is to be nice, but to be told being nice is a bad thing, something you will be punished for.   So my advice is:  If you&#039;re not a nice guy, strive to be one.   If you are a nice guy, keep being nice, but make sure you man up too.]]></description>
			<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>I think some of the commenters missed the point, when they say things like &#8220;Nice guys finish last.&#8221;   The thing is, you can be nice, but at the same time be confident, manly, have self-esteem, and stand out.   You can be nice without drooling over women and being their doormat.  You can be gentle, kind, and caring at times (women do actually like this) or even all the time, without sacrificing being strong, your own person, opinionated, and wiling to say &#8220;no&#8221; to a woman.    The guys who are strong, confident, and stand out, also tend to take this to an extreme and are not nice.    I think a lot of women want a guy who is both:  Nice, but MAN.   &#8220;Nice&#8221; is not a bad word like people think it is;  it doesn&#8217;t mean &#8220;wimp&#8221;.   Unfortunately, most people in this world are not very nice.   When I say &#8220;nice&#8221;, I mean friendly, caring, willing to give of yourself for others.   We need people &#8211; both male and female- to be nicer.   This takes effort.   One thing that can be disheartening is to be nice, but to be told being nice is a bad thing, something you will be punished for.   So my advice is:  If you&#8217;re not a nice guy, strive to be one.   If you are a nice guy, keep being nice, but make sure you man up too.</p>
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		By: cylde		</title>
		<link>https://www.pipubs.com/the-realities-of-the-20-year-old-hot-girl/#comment-4596</link>

		<dc:creator><![CDATA[cylde]]></dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Tue, 18 Nov 2014 15:25:45 +0000</pubDate>
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					<description><![CDATA[Eye opener , this article makes sense. Really puts it into perspective thanks]]></description>
			<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Eye opener , this article makes sense. Really puts it into perspective thanks</p>
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		By: AlphaX		</title>
		<link>https://www.pipubs.com/the-realities-of-the-20-year-old-hot-girl/#comment-3017</link>

		<dc:creator><![CDATA[AlphaX]]></dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Mon, 21 Apr 2014 13:33:58 +0000</pubDate>
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					<description><![CDATA[In reply to &lt;a href=&quot;https://www.pipubs.com/the-realities-of-the-20-year-old-hot-girl/#comment-3016&quot;&gt;Steph&lt;/a&gt;.

False - most bar/grills you only have to be 18 to serve.  Check your local Hooters...]]></description>
			<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>In reply to <a href="https://www.pipubs.com/the-realities-of-the-20-year-old-hot-girl/#comment-3016">Steph</a>.</p>
<p>False &#8211; most bar/grills you only have to be 18 to serve.  Check your local Hooters&#8230;</p>
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		By: Steph		</title>
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		<dc:creator><![CDATA[Steph]]></dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Mon, 21 Apr 2014 09:58:42 +0000</pubDate>
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					<description><![CDATA[is she only 20 how oes she work at a bar. You have to be 21 to serve alcohol.]]></description>
			<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>is she only 20 how oes she work at a bar. You have to be 21 to serve alcohol.</p>
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		By: AlphaX		</title>
		<link>https://www.pipubs.com/the-realities-of-the-20-year-old-hot-girl/#comment-2366</link>

		<dc:creator><![CDATA[AlphaX]]></dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Thu, 19 Dec 2013 16:32:29 +0000</pubDate>
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					<description><![CDATA[In reply to &lt;a href=&quot;https://www.pipubs.com/the-realities-of-the-20-year-old-hot-girl/#comment-2363&quot;&gt;Catherine&lt;/a&gt;.

http://www.pipubs.com/im-meeting-a-prince/]]></description>
			<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>In reply to <a href="https://www.pipubs.com/the-realities-of-the-20-year-old-hot-girl/#comment-2363">Catherine</a>.</p>
<p><a href="http://www.pipubs.com/im-meeting-a-prince/" rel="ugc">http://www.pipubs.com/im-meeting-a-prince/</a></p>
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		By: Catherine		</title>
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		<dc:creator><![CDATA[Catherine]]></dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Thu, 19 Dec 2013 14:54:42 +0000</pubDate>
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					<description><![CDATA[In reply to &lt;a href=&quot;https://www.pipubs.com/the-realities-of-the-20-year-old-hot-girl/#comment-44&quot;&gt;AlphaX&lt;/a&gt;.

Hey Alpha X I need urgent help!

Im meeting a prince In a couple of weeks for maybe an interview or I might attend a dinner with my news crew where the prince will be present. He&#039;s of course rich, highly respected and obviously gets girls thrown at him. I&#039;m going to be honest I want to create a really good impression in front of him without looking desperate. I know he gets millions of super good looking girls always wanting him etc but how do I an average looking girl spark interest in him for me?  I know a lot if people will say if you do have chemistry of course it depends if it&#039;s natural or just be yourself etc and I will be myself of course but there no harm in sharpening your chances right? So if you could give me a bit in insight on how to act around him how to talk etc so he&#039;d be interested. I&#039;d honestly be forever thankful :)]]></description>
			<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>In reply to <a href="https://www.pipubs.com/the-realities-of-the-20-year-old-hot-girl/#comment-44">AlphaX</a>.</p>
<p>Hey Alpha X I need urgent help!</p>
<p>Im meeting a prince In a couple of weeks for maybe an interview or I might attend a dinner with my news crew where the prince will be present. He&#8217;s of course rich, highly respected and obviously gets girls thrown at him. I&#8217;m going to be honest I want to create a really good impression in front of him without looking desperate. I know he gets millions of super good looking girls always wanting him etc but how do I an average looking girl spark interest in him for me?  I know a lot if people will say if you do have chemistry of course it depends if it&#8217;s natural or just be yourself etc and I will be myself of course but there no harm in sharpening your chances right? So if you could give me a bit in insight on how to act around him how to talk etc so he&#8217;d be interested. I&#8217;d honestly be forever thankful 🙂</p>
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