Whee did you learn bar game?

I read the post and although I like the advice. I couldn’t help but think this guy is hyping himself up in ways that aren’t realistic. In some of his examples (especially the one where he tells the girls to get him a drink) it’s not likely things will play out that easy (I’ve been killing bar game for years in similar situations. Something just seemed off) . I felt a bit of exaggeration in his stories to make him look better and that he was probably full of shit. But I thought why? And continued reading.

Then I saw at the end he was promoting some alpha program he was selling. Then it all made sense…

Great question. You will note, the guys hitting on my girl(s) were all guys I didn’t know. Personally, I would confront him and let him know in certain terms that to continue hitting on my girl will negate our friendship and cause him bodily damage. Actually, if he was really hitting on my girl I would cut him off as a friend and ignore his ass. If she seems to like him, encourage those 2 get together and ask your girlfriend for her hottest friends number…

Here’s my current situation: One of my best friends is constantly hitting on my gf (of over a year). He would go so far as to try and sabotage us. For example I had to leave a party early and she was coming with me but I couldn’t find her. He blatantly lied and said that she wanted to stay and I should go. All so he could get alone time with her without me around. I’m very tempted to confront him but not sure how I should approach it

No, I am just that controlled and uncaring. But I tell you what… if you have a girlfriend, why don’t you try this and let me know how it goes. Don’t mate guard at all, and report back to us if she was more attracted or less?

Yes, do it exactly the same. The first example was my wife. Works like a charm. Just don’t mate guard at all. You have to know you are so valuable that her losing you would hurt her more than it would hurt you. If you tell me a specific scenario you find yourself in I could probably help you formulate the response.

Good question, and play this out. What if she does see this as “I don’t care”? What if she does escalate with another guy to get back at me? That simply means she is demoted and I am on to the next girl. Worrying about what she is going to do or feel about your actions shows a “scarcity” mentality. Having an abundance mentality means you don’t worry about these things – it is part of what communicates to her that you have high value, since you don’t worry about losing her.