Well said.

I need to remind you that in some parts of the world (including latin countries, where a large number of attractive yet traditional women reside) this is in fact even considered an advantage—that an older man is mature, serious, and sure of himself.

If anything, the things you say that you could have had with younger men are the types of things a man like me can provide. I’m in great shape, can give pretty good sex, and I don’t break into “young man drama.”

As with anything, it depends on the person. If your frame of reference is only older men who were lacking, then yes most certainly there’s bound to be a level of dissatisfaction there.

Gentlemen, this is a perfect example of why attraction is not a choice and that you should believe that women DO like older men. Hell, if you can make her feel attraction nothing else matters.

1) Go to the end of her message: ” instead I chose older men”. This just tells me that she slept with men that were older than her who made her feel attraction. Maybe they couldn’t keep her – or didn’t want to. Attraction and sexual tension override everything else. And keep in mind, I am sure she has left/been dumped by younger men as well.

2) You will see the bullshit mental checklist she has: buff body, tech savvy (as if this means anything), hair (I’m bald along with 50% of men – Like Dwayne the Rock Johnson, LL Cool J, & Stone Cold Steve Austin – you know guys that NEVER get laid), flat chest (I actually have slabs of meat), etc. This list is partly meant to shame anyone from fighting back. If you disagree with her, then you must have the traits she talks about. I do have some of those traits, and yet, if this is the girl I found online, my girlfriend is younger and hotter. Regardless, this list get’s thrown out the window if you make a girl feel attraction and sexual tension. Most girls don’t try to date thugs, drug dealers, murders, abusers, rapist, etc. These men trigger attraction and the girls stop running on logic and simply feel sexual tension. Not that I recommend it, but maintaining your state (logic and control) while engaging a person’s emotions will allow you to manipulate them into anything.

3) In shape and boring – I actually agree with her. We as men should keep our bodies in top shape. Age has nothing to do with it, most 18-25 year olds cannot hang with me. But I did let myself get fat and I was not as energetic as I am now. Better sex, we look younger, and it is an attraction trigger. As for older men boring? Hasn’t been my experience. I hate shopping – so me and my friends will be on the choppers. It may be boring to her, but shopping is like being water boarded to me. But who knows… maybe she did date boring guys. As for me, if you can make the girl feel attraction, then anything is exciting.

I know you didn’t mean too, but thank you for proving my point. The problem wasn’t you chose older men, it was likely the men you chose didn’t keep doing what they did to attract you. Or you got dumped and you are trying to justify it.