Great comment and discussion. Let’s take a look at Handling the Alpha Female

What is your advice for handling the Alpha female? As men we have numerous amounts of women to choose from with variations that are endless, but some women are easier to dominate and others are naturally prone to having a dominate personality as well, they are fun to challenge and are very rewarding when captured.

However, I wanted to get your philosophy in this particular area. Let me try to be more specific, for example lets say that you are pursuing a young woman who is an obvious alpha female; she doesn’t just stick out of the crowds with her looks but with the way she carries herself and projects out to the world around her. How would you handle these women and are you more inclined to target these types or do you focus on easier prey? It seems natural for me to want an alpha female being an alpha male, but I wonder what the consequences could be for two powerful dominant people to exist together. Will they be constantly fighting for power position or will they thrive with threatening ambition?

By the way I have a 22 yr. old girlfriend and I am 24, she isn’t quite alpha female material but is very gorgeous and talented. I am asking from a position of curiosity, I have two sets of parents that divorced over this issue. The first marriage lasted for 8 years and they both fell apart and crumbled over their personalities. They should have never been together but she was young and he was the dominant one of the relationship, she grew older had a few kids and they both realized that they would always clash if they didn’t divorce. They were both strong minded people who I would call alphas. They both remarried and my father found his serving housewife and so did my mother, he seriously does anything she says.

You can see why I am so curious. They lasted long enough for her to realize she wasn’t about that house wife shit, and then they rearranged accordingly. Both found what they could couple with in the end but it proved the idea of two alphas may not be the best idea. Tell me what you think.

By the way, great site and advice, you seem to have accumulated copious amounts of hardships and growth from those hardships in life. I admire that in people.

James